Books So Far

I've been reading regularly this year. January/February are my quiet months, so I regularly set aside time to read more. I'm also aiming at reading more nonfiction this year.

So far, I have read (or finished reading):

Fiction

The Secret Book Society by Madeline Martin. I really enjoy her historical fiction; this one taught me about the trials of upper-class women in Victorian London.

A Man Called Ove by Fredrick Bockman. It was pretty good. The concept was fairly standard: A grumpy old man is changed by the family who moved in next door. It was well-told and not too predictable.

Non-fiction

Finding My Way by Malala Yousafzai. It was interesting to read what her life was really like after her earlier story in I Am Malala.

Biblical Counseling in Practice by Martha Peace. I had started it in December. It's very practical and looks at many of the challenges that women face.

Notes From the Tilt-a-Whirl by N.D. Wilson. I have to say, this was different, but in a good way. He looks at God, theology, and various issues, from a very unique perspective.

The Twelve Monotasks by Thatcher Wine. I'm not sure how I stumbled upon this one. It's about the importance of doing one thing at a time and doing it well.

Unplug by Richard Simon. I found this one while browsing in the library. I don't have a smartphone that I carry with me (I use one primarily at home for a few apps); I prefer to use a flip phone. The book didn't quite relate to me as it was about detoxing from smartphone addiction. It was still a good look at how to keep my phone from taking over if I ever switch to it permanently.

Picture Books

How to Make an Apple Pie and See the World by Marjorie Priceman. It was a fun read; the illustrations really made the book.

Sam and Dave Dig a Hole by Mac Barnett, illustrated by Jon Klassen. This is short and simple: Sam and Dave are digging for something amazing and keep missing diamonds. The kids felt bad for them, but happy that the dog found a treasure (a bone)!

Lighthouse: A Story of Remembrance by Robert Munsch, illustrated by Janet Wilson. This is quite different from Robert Munsch's regular books. It's a gentle story about a father and daughter remembering her grandfather. The kids enjoyed it, although I did have to explain to some of them what a funeral is.

Interrupting Chicken and the Elephant of Surprise by David Ezra Stein. The kids love Interrupting Chicken (this is our second story about him). The youngest ones didn't quite get the idea of "element of surprise", but they loved the elephant popping up in the story.

Cooking Lessons

I have been working on cooking a greater variety of food. I received an air fryer for Christmas, so I'm having fun with that. I also get a box of produce delivered once a week, and there are sometimes things I'm not as familiar with or that I've never cooked with (tomatillos, persimmons, squash). 

I've learned some things along the way:

Butternut squash is very good in soup. I don't generally like squash (it's a texture thing), but I like it cubed in soup. I may try roasting it and then blending it to make soup.

The carrot soup is good. I used a pile of carrots, a handful of tomatillos, half an onion, and a small red pepper, all cooked and blended together. It likely did not need the ginger, as the other spices would have been enough. It's a bit spicy, but not too bad.

Pretty much any vegetable can be turned into a stir fry if you try hard enough. I made an eggplant and choy mue stir fry with some pork strips that I had cooked in the air fryer and a couple packs of udon noodles. It was a pretty good stir fry.

Pretty much any fruit can become baked oatmeal. So far, I've made blueberry/apple, blueberry/banana, blueberry/rhubarb, plain blueberry, plain apple, and plain pear baked oatmeal. I haven't tried blueberry/pear yet.

Most leftover veggies can be made into soup. Some can be added to scrambled eggs or used to make an omelet. Other's can join a barley bowl or pasta sauce.

Most fruit makes a good smoothie. My basic "recipe" is milk, some sort of frozen fruit (or fresh, in the case of the persimmons and sometimes apples), and a frozen banana. I often add some combination of peanut butter powder, yogurt, and spinach. I might add some honey or maple syrup if I think it needs to be sweeter.

Having a mix of fruits and veggies has forced me to be creative and search out new recipes. I'm enjoying learning about new ways to cook things and trying new flavours.

On Changing the World

Once I thought that I would do great and amazing things and change the world. 

Then I thought I might do good, still amazing things, and change a smaller part of the world. 

Now I do little, ordinary things, and don't worry about changing the world. 

I encourage children to learn, to think, to know God. I encourage parents as they teach their children and come along side them as they endeavor to raise them in the fear and admonition of the Lord. I listen to friends when they need an ear and try to reach out to know people better. I do my best to love the people around me even when I'm not sure I'm doing it right. Sometimes I share my thoughts on books and people and the world for a small readership. I write Sunday School curriculum, and I try to get students to read and write, and I edit papers for friends, and I write articles about women of church history, and I watch over children while their moms fellowship and learn and study the Word together.

Perhaps I won't change the world. Perhaps that isn't my job. What I will do is be faithful with what God has put in front of me and trust Him to change the world.

Just a Bit of Something

 In going through an old notebook, I stumbled upon this beginning of a story:

Max the Smallest Truck

Max was the smallest truck n the whole yard. Every morning the bit trucks would head out to pick up loads of dirt and gravel and rocks, and Max would wait... and wait...and wait. Every evening the big trucks would come back, dirty and tired, and talking about all the things they had seen that day, and Max would still be waiting. Every night he fell asleep sad and lonely and wondering if tomorrow would be the day. But there was never a load for a little truck.

I have no idea where I was going with this, or if I even had any idea beyond the introduction of Max. Poor Max, doomed to be forever waiting and sad.

Well, It's Something

Sunday School started again yesterday, after a 4-week break. 

My current curriculum is set up so we teach 5 lessons, and then do a review lesson. The review lessons are in a quiz format, and I break the kids into teams. The questions sometimes have a single answer, so only the team who is "up" answers; sometimes have many answers, and we go around the room with the teams taking turns getting as many answers as possible; and are sometimes turned into hangman, where each team takes turns picking a letter and guessing the answer.

Yesterday was a review week and I wasn't sure how much they would remember after the break. They did pretty well. Their main retention, though, was saved for my lesson on how to best guess letters for hangman from the last review week! They did much better this time; the man was never in danger of being hanged.

At least I have evidence that they listen to me! 

It's Just a Little Thing

Yesterday, we had a birthday ladies' tea for a dear friend. She took the time to talk about when she met each of us and something she really appreciates about us.

She did not mention anything related to singleness or children when she talked to me.

It's not a huge deal. It's just that often I feel like people at church see me as the single lady who cares for the children and that's all. 

It was nice that someone sees something else in me as well. 

December

December was long and busy and good. 

I finished my last fall meeting on December 1st, which was the earliest I have finished ever. I try to finish by the end of November, but that never actually works. I was pretty pleased with not going past the first.

Once that was done, December was all about the Christmas concert. There was the challenge of making enough angel costumes for our 16 angels (all of them at least 9 years old, none of them short enough for the "long men's t-shirt" costumes). Then there were practices, the dress rehearsal, and the concert itself. It was a good concert; the children were wonderful and the parents enjoyed it. Plus, I finally broke the 1 hour mark, so that was an accomplishment. It always seems like a lot of work for a concert that's done in 45 minutes.

For several weeks I had felt almost sick on and off, and informed my body that if it must get sick, it had to wait until after the concert. It listened, and two days after the concert I came down with a cold and spent the week inside trying to get better! I wasn't terribly sick; if I had still been working my previous job, most days I would be expected to take some cold meds and go to work. I was thankful for a life where it was okay to get sick, no one would get angry, and no one expected me to work.

Then it was finally Christmas, which is always a good time. I have spent Christmas with the same family since 2018 (except one year I was with another family, and we missed each other and we decided to never do that again). It was quieter as some of the children were sick and there wasn't as much company as there would normally be. It was also very happy and I was very loved and able to demonstrate my love for them.

There has been a pile of snow this winter, mostly on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day. It's lovely and I love looking outside at the mounds and drifts and the falling snow.

The month (and year) ended with breakfast with a friend, lunch and shopping with my brother, and dinner at another friend's house with a family I hadn't seen in quite some time (not all on the same day!). 

It was a good month. It was a good year.